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The Erotic Shadow Play Workshop Experience: A Participant’s Perspective

Posted on December 22, 2025 by AChacksfield Posted in Uncategorized

Kirsty Jackson wrote the following post on Facebook two weeks after participating in my weekend workshop “Making Love with Our Shadows”:

The Beauty of Shadow Work: Remembering the Parts We Turned Away From

Two weeks ago, I stepped into a space devoted to shadow work, and it was one of the most liberating, enlivening, grounding and exciting experiences I’ve had in a long time.

I’ve felt so much lighter ever since. There’s more confidence in my own being; a deeper self trust that comes from knowing I can hold and love all versions of me. There’s greater presence in everyday life and I’ve felt vibrantly alive and able to enjoy the juicy flow of life, guilt-free.

Shadow work is about wholeness

It’s about meeting and welcoming the parts of ourselves we learned to hide. The emotions we were told were “too much,” the instincts we suppressed in order to be loved, the versions of us we modified to survive.

What I loved most about the experience was the playfulness, the freedom to explore with curiosity and openess free from any judgment. It was a gift to play with the energies, expressions, and feelings that wanted to be met and discover that what I thought was “bad”, “too much”, “unwelcome” was actually raw, potent aliveness.

I’ve made friends with parts I was told weren’t welcome or were judged by others to be wrong and rediscovered the creativity the passion and the delicious pleasure they truly hold.

The moment we allow the truth of what we really feel in our being, a deeper intelligence awakens that’s beautiful, erotic, creative and so incredibly empowering.

This work is tender, profound, and deeply human, and for me, it has opened a new layer of my Living Temple, one where nothing is rejected, and everything belongs.

 

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“Learning To Accept Oneself” with Adam Chacksfield Being Interviewed by Gayane Minassian

Posted on November 30, 2024 by AChacksfield Posted in Intimacy, Uncategorized, video

Adam Chacksfield speaks about learning to love ourselves during his Interview with Gayane Minassian

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“The Call of Love” with Adam Chacksfield Being Interviewed by Gayane Minassian

Posted on September 26, 2024 by AChacksfield Posted in Intimacy, Uncategorized, video

Adam Chacksfield speaks about the “call of love” during his Interview with Gayane Minassian

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“Awareness, Love, Desire” Interview with Adam Chacksfield by Gayane Minassian

Posted on September 26, 2024 by AChacksfield Posted in Intimacy, Uncategorized, video

Adam Chacksfield is Interviewed by Gayane Minassian on the topic of “Awareness, Love, Desire”

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Transformative Erotic Play: What Happens at the ‘Playing in the Dark’ Retreat

Posted on September 26, 2024 by AChacksfield Posted in Uncategorized, video

Adam Chacksfield, Sarah Belzile, & Lauren Higdon share their experience of the transformative power of erotic shadow play. 

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Transform Your Challenges into Erotic Enjoyment at Our “Playing in the Dark” retreat

Posted on July 24, 2024 by AChacksfield Posted in Uncategorized, video

 Adam Chacksfield, Sarah Belzile, & Lauren Higdon share their experience of the transformative power of this work. 

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“Liberating Erotic Shadows” Adam Chacksfield’s Conversation with Deborah Kat of The Better Sex Podcast

Posted on July 9, 2024 by AChacksfield Posted in Intimacy, Relationships, Uncategorized

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“Opening to Aliveness” Adam Chacksfield’s Conversation with Ilona Ciunaite of Awakening Now

Posted on February 14, 2024 by AChacksfield Posted in Uncategorized, video

 This conversation explores the open-ended journey of spiritual awakening, embodiment, and opening to aliveness.

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Interview on “Chatting Nonduality”

Posted on October 4, 2023 by AChacksfield Posted in Uncategorized, video

https://www.youtube.com/live/PgIuM3s0slY?si=61qNePrfEkmpCTaO

This is a recording of an interview I did with Walter Driscoll that was broadcast live on “Chatting Nonduality”. 

This conversation explores nonduality, embodiment, intimacy, sexuality, transforming relational conflict, healing shame, and many other topics.

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“Entering the Forbidden Dark” Interview with Adam Chacksfield by Luchana Uzunova

Posted on October 27, 2020 by AChacksfield Posted in Uncategorized, video

In this interview by Luchana Uzunova, Adam invites us to turn towards the feelings that we’re scared or ashamed to experience. He supports us questioning our fear and shame-driven projections, so that we can discover our actual direct experience. Subtitles available in Bulgarian.

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